Thursday, April 09, 2009


My daughter, Shelbi, turns 16 on Monday. That's right, "Sweet 16 and never..." oh well, I guess she's at least sweet 16, even if I know for a fact she HAS been kissed! Shelbi is my youngest. Jordan is now 18 and leaving home soon for the Little Apple in Manhattan to go to K-State. Shelbi is not far behind. When I think of these things happening I sometimes feel a rush of emotion build up that I can't help. My two wonderful little kids have grown up right before my eyes and there's nothing I can do to stop it! But if I could, would I? There's a question for you! Sometimes I long so much to see my little 8 year-old Shelbi again. That little girl with the glint in her eye everytime she looks at her dad. Oh how I loved that look in her eye! Now, she's got a boyfriend that gives her that glint and she rarely has time to spend with good 'ol dad anymore. Jordan is so busy with his senior year in school that dad isn't much more than the housekeeper that washes his clothes and sometimes feeds him when he has time to stop and eat. But if I could turn back the hands of time, would I? I so enjoy watching my kids turn into adults! I'm always amazed at what wonderful young adults they've become! I guess it just seems to all have flown by so fast that I realize how much of their youth I missed and wish I could have some of it back.

3 comments:

Ellie Graves said...

I can't believe Shelbi is 16!!! I still remember meeting Jordan and Shelbi when she was such a little girl - maybe 4?
Amazing how fast time passes!
Congratulations!

Anonymous said...

I love reading your posts, I check it more often than you think. They often get me really teary eyed. As much as you'd think "I cant wait to grow up". Time has already gone so fast, and I dread the day I move away from my home town where all my family is. I love you daddy! And I will always love you, you are a great father and always have been!

Anonymous said...

I love reading your posts too - also more often than you think. You have a terrific way of expressing yourself that always begs me to continue reading to see what's in store. Don't ever stop writing bro - I really enjoy it. I had real tears to read that one of your "little ones" also read it "more often than you think". Couldn't tell which one though - I'm thinking your oldest! You have done a wonderful job with your kids and couldn't have loved them any more than you have. You should be proud and I know your kids love you as much as you love them - and always will! Love you bro!

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